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Now that you have read about my work and my passion for conscious relationships, you may be curious about how we can work together on overcoming the obstacles and challenges that are holding you back and causing frustration and pain in relationship.

If you are ready to take the next step, please contact me via email and tell me a bit about your situation. I will then email you back, so we can schedule a time for a free telephone consultation to explore the possibility of working together.

I can help you get your relationship journey back on track.

I keep all information professionally confidential.

Thank you for taking the time with me here.

If you'd like to get in touch, please email me at:

[email protected]

or text: (845) 641-8843


Here is my manifesto, The Jewels.  Click on it to isolate the document for printing.

The Pair Bond
Yaj (Amy Jay), MA

MA, Family Systems Counseling

NY Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

Certified Imago Relationship Therapist

Gottman Level 2 Therapist

Non-Violent Communication (NVC) Practitioner

If ever there was an anti-therapy guy, that was me.  And now I’m so glad I did it.  It was a job at first, but it’s easier now.  There are 3 words I will never forget – manage your thoughts.  I do it all the time now.  I don’t remember the last time I exploded.

Bob H.
Age 48
Woodstock, NY

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